Enjoying the Middle



I was recently reading a book, becoming more and more enthralled with the main character’s perilous journey, when the focus shifted to the rugged trail he had to take. There were pages and pages describing this trail.

Can I be honest? I skimmed those descriptions. My eyes went searching for his next thought or the next section of dialogue. Something other than that same rocky path.  I just wanted to get off of that trail and see what was going to happen next.

When I started to get frustrated, a gentle whisper informed me that I do that sort of thing all the time in my own life, and I need to slow down and enjoy the middle.

It’s true. I find myself wanting to hurry things along and get to the “good stuff.” Let’s get on with it, I might think. I’m ready for the next big thing, Lord.

But God doesn’t always want that. He doesn’t want us to miss the middle of our journey because not only are there a multitude of lessons to be learned in the middle, but God Himself is the One doing the teaching IF we’re willing to slow down and stop fidgeting out of frustration.

He wants to teach us lessons that will strengthen our faith for today, tomorrow, and way, way down that eh, rocky path, we might find ourselves on. 🙂

And a lesson we certainly don’t want to miss: God is in the details of our lives.

God is in the details all around us in our everyday lives and we may overlook those details if we rush right by thinking this is just a bunch of slow-me-down descriptions. He wants to show us things that, to someone else might not mean much, but to you and me, they could offer jaw-dropping, laugh out loud (literally!) moments that open our eyes to more of who He is and how He works in our lives.

But if you and I hurry through, skimming over them and rushing to get to the “good stuff” we’re going to miss that closeness with God, that intimate moment He wanted to share with us.

Need an example? There are thousands, billions perhaps.

Have you ever needed a quarter for the shopping cart or parking meter and found one in your car? Have you ever felt discouraged and a text came to you right then?

Did you ever notice how the rain stopped just when you stepped outside to get the mail or a song playing the perfect lyrics for your aching heart was on the radio the very moment you turned it on? What about receiving a card in the mail that gave you the confirmation you’d asked God for that same morning?

What about finding the last two pounds of the “right” kind of sausage at the grocery store to make your family’s favorite potato soup or seeing your Mom’s favorite spaghetti sauce was not only available but on sale right before you left to visit her?

You see, God is in the details, enriching our lives and blessing us all the way through the middle while we travel on the paths to get to where He wants us to be. And we don’t want to miss a single moment, a single detail of walking with Him.

Spending that kind of time with Him really is the good stuff.

“Be still, and know that I am God! I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.” (Psalm 46:10 NLT.)

“You’re blessed when you stay on course, walking steadily on the road revealed by God. You’re blessed when you follow his directions, doing your best to find him. That’s right- you don’t go off on your own; you walk straight along the road he set.” (Psalm 119:1-3 MSG.)


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6 thoughts on “Enjoying the Middle

  1. You have a great point in that we can miss the essential middle, failing to take in account that there are important things to glean and that God is not far away from us. We all like to avoid pain and hard things but if we would just endure we can learn lasting lessons along the way. Your experiences have greatly been a blessing for others to reflect on upon the essentials in life. Love and blessings dear woman of God😀❤️🌹💐🙏🙏

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    1. Thank you for your kindness, Valerie! I pray we all grow closer to God – that’s really the best place to be (whether we’re in the middle or somewhere else in our journey). That’s so true…we want to avoid those difficult steps but we strengthen our faith and learn SO much when we endure and press on! Blessings and love to you as well, dear Sister in Christ!!


  2. I needed to read this today!! I’m in a waiting phase right now, and it’s hard… but truthfully, isn’t it all a waiting phase? Aren’t we all called to wait on the Lord, to trust in His timing, to lose our life in surrender? Bless you, Joey!

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    1. Oh that blesses ME, Jessica! Thank you for sharing. God always knows what we need, doesn’t He? He just amazes me!! Yes, it seems like we’re always in some sort of waiting phase, especially as writers. And you’re so right that we are to wait on the Lord…”Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him.” Psalm 37:7 – One of my favorites! I’m praying for you, that while you’re waiting, God will draw you so close to Him that you’ll actually enjoy the wait! Blessings to you, dear Sister in Christ!!


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