Imagine that you’re staring down a closed door. You knock and knock hoping the door will open. But it doesn’t. You feel stuck, your face against the wood, your breath returning to you. You whisper up a prayer for the door to open.
But it remains shut.
What’s on the other side of the door? It could be an opportunity you’re hoping will open up to you. Or it could be a person.
That’s right. It could be a person you’ve been wanting to talk to, someone you’re wanting to walk beside and help carry the load, or someone you’ve drifted apart from. But this person simply won’t open the door.
You stand there staring at the door, waiting to see it pull away and open, waiting to hear the click or movement on the other side.
But there is only silence.
You pray and ask God for wisdom, to help you understand this closed door. And when you do you hear, “Turn around” gently whispered to your heart.
Waiting behind you are the people longing to be with you. They are the ones God blessed your life with and they’ve been waiting for you to turn around. You can hear them, but you’ve been too busy focusing on the door to really see them.
So you turn around and you step away from the closed door, away from the opportunity or the toxicity of a relationship beyond the door that God is trying to protect you from. Perhaps you need to guard your heart from what’s beyond the door. And trust God and His plan. He knows what He’s doing.
God doesn’t want you banging your fists, bloodying your knuckles on a door He’s keeping closed for your own good. With His help you can turn around, walk away, and let go of what you think you should be doing or who you think you should have a relationship with. And while you’re walking away, pray for the situation. Pray for the person.
It’s time to let go of the guilt that was never yours to hold onto in the first place and extinguish those flaming accusations of a liar who wants nothing more than to render you useless. Satan would be thrilled to see you standing like a little kid in time-out with your nose stuck to a closed door.
But you are not in time-out. Actually, you need to get ready. A new plan is in the works. New and exciting times are coming. And if you’ve got your face stuck to a door, you’re going to miss it.
Let God protect you, my friend, and enjoy the life He has waiting for you. Love and cherish those He’s brought into your life and let them love you back.
It’s time. Turn around and walk away from the door.
“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (Proverbs 4:23 NLT.)